Wed, 14 Nov 2007
Hello My dear family of mine! Well it was another week and I was really excited for this week because it was my first week to really work in the area and see what I have to work with. Well after a week of working I was really excited for Sunday becuase we had more than 10 people to
bring to church and 3 families that said they would go. Well, Sunday morning came and nobody went. One family is a really special family that we will continue working with. When I got here, 3 of the 5 kids had just got baptized that Sunday. The mom has gone 3 times to church and wants to be baptized and so this Sunday the whole family was going to go to church with us. Well on Saturday night, the dad's cousin got hit by a car and had to be hospitalized in Natal and so he went with him to the hospital. From what we heard yesturday he might have died, we dont
know yet but we'll pass there today to see how we can help. It is sad, but the dad was really excited to come to church but this happened, but this Sunday for sure he will go. All the other people didnt go and just werent at home. Each area is so different. There in Campina Grande we didnt ever have a ton of people that said they would go to church, but those that said they would go went on Sunday. Here is totally different, people say they will go and then forget on Sunday, so Ive been thinking and we will start trying a few new things. We already found a few people that seem to be really interested in going on Sunday so we'll see what happens.
Dad said that it seems like I am the 'emergency transfer missionary '. Well I guess you could say that. The first time I was emergency transferred was because there was a problem with the finances on the mission so the secretary had to return and so I took his spot there in Currais Novos. The second time was because a missionary broke a rule and he was released from being a zone leader and I took his place. This time was because there were 5 missionaries that stayed for 30 more days on the mission (They wanted to stay longer but they were only allowed 30
days) and so when they went home there were a lot of changes. But anyway, The work here is going good and I am learning a lot. There is always a lot of stress but I have learned that there is always a reason to be stressed, but we can choose how to react. Being stressed out just makes the work harder and a lot less rewarding. But when we enjoy every moment, even the hard times, then we will be a lot happier and we will have more success. As a missionary there is always the stress of trying to follow the spirit, but if we get so stressed out trying to follow the
spirit there is no way we will be able to feel the soft promptings of the spirit.
Yesterday we had an interesting expirience. We received a referral from the 2nd stake counselor of a 28 year old woman and she hás already gone to church 5 times. So we marked her baptism for this Sunday and she accepted. Well we went yesturdya to teach more and prepare her for this Sunday and when we got there she said that she was already decided
that she wouldnt be baptized this Sunday. Well we talked with her and we came to the conclusion that she really didnt have the desire to be baptised. But something kept prompting to keep teaching and talking to her. I thought, its been 35 minutes and we are exactly where we were when we started, I am wasting the Lord's time. But then came the prompting, talk about the Law of Chastity. I thought, thats ridiculous, she doesnt even want to be baptized, why should I talk about a commandment that she has to keep that she probably wont want to keep. But i felt it again and so we started teaching the law of chastity. Well it turns out she has a boyfriend and so we talked about how serious these things are. She looked at us and said, 'You mean that I cant be baptized until I keep this commandment? " We talked about how a person has to keep the commandments to be baptized. She almost started crying and for a minute I thought that she would say that it was to hard and she didnt want to be baptized, But, she showed how she really wanted to keep the commandments and so we talked about fasting. She said that she would fast and so we started a fast with her. She became really happy and really
excited about her baptism this Sunday. It is interensting how things work. She talked about 3 or 4 things of why she didnt want to be baptized but none of them were the real reason why. Just following the spirit, we found out what was really holding her back. The lesson lasted over an
hour but I felt really good when I left and felt that the Lord really wants her to be baptized, if not I would have left after 30 minutes.
Well, other than this, everything is great. Today was transfers but luckily I dont have to pack my bags again. Elder Almiro and I will stay together. He only hás 2 transfers left so it looks like I will be his last companion. It would be good, He is an awesome guy and we have fun joking around but also it is good teaching with him because the spirit is always strong. I still cant believe that it is already November. Where did 2007 go? It flew by. Well, whether I like it or not, time just goes by faster and faster and I dont have any control over it, that is why we need to take advantage of today. Speaking of today, were gonna play some soccer at the church. It is the saddest looking field ever. It is sand but full of weeks and rocks and the goals are sad looking, but it is still way fun. I think for lunch today we are going to make some cuzcuz with eggs and hot dogs. MMMMM. I'll bring some Cuzcuz and when I get back everyone will have to try it. It is interensting, made out of corn, but still pretty dang good. I dont know if I wrote that it is Mango season here. It is great. Everyday we find mangos in front of our house and we make mango juice and we eat mangos and make mangosandwiches and anything else you can do with mangos. Well, I gotta go. I love you all and thanks for the letters. Keep me updated and send pictures!
Elder Crosby